Woman with Scars

Few weeks ago, I watched Chef Renata Moeloek in Deddy Corbuzier's podcast.

They talked alot, about more 40 minutes If I am not mistaken. They did a flow conversation without any certain topic, just random things.

But, there is one thing that remaining in my mind until today. The topic was about Renata's scars. Yes she have scars I'm her body because she had an accident in the kitchen when she was cooking years ago. That was a serious wound with a quite high level of burn on her upper body.

At that time Deddy asked her, is her boyfriend have complain about her scars.

And what make me adore her, she answered with a sharp question and cool answer—at least in my opinion—:

Why should he feel bothered with my scars? That is just scars not a skin desease or anything. I'm healthy. I don't have any desease. Just scars. So, if he feel bothered with that, I think there is something wrong with him.

I was amazed. That was though.

But I really agree. I felt like I found a buddy at that time, haha...

Because I have scars too, and keloid as well. I personally don't really mind that fact, because yes, THAT'S JUST SCARS IM MY SKIN. Nothing else, nothing wrong.

I'm okay with my scars.

I'm not over proud my scars. But just see that as a normal thing. For me, t's okay if a girl has scars. As long as that's not a skin desease. Because if that a skin desease we have to take care of it, properly.

I know there are so much girls have a dream skin: fair, smooth, clean, bright, flawless, etc.

It's okay. Totally okay. So take care your body.

But, if there are women have scars, please don't act like she is not worth it enough because of that.

A human values are more than that just a clear skin withot scars or anything. Everyone, every woman is worth it because of their quality and value not just because their skin.